Frequently Asked Questions
Here is a list of questions that our phone girl says she gets asked most frequently...
Q. Half hour sessions?
A. Very rarely. As independent mistresses working from their own space, the mistresses like to do sessions that feel unrushed. We give ample time before and after each session for the sub to express him or herself, clean up, have a glass of water, etc. Take great pains to make the experience feel personal and special.
Q. How do you pronounce the Mistress' name?
Mistress Xstine : The Mistress' goes by a nickname her friends gave her years ago. It is pronounced"Ex-steen".
Once you have been with the Mistress for a while, she will explain.
Q. Does the Mistress look as lovely as the photos?
A. It seems many subs have been confiding that they have been disappointed in the past to find that sometimes a mistress is not as attractive as the photos present her to be. This is possibly because the pictures are several years old, or the mistress has gained weight, or retouched the pictures excessively, etc.
Although it is tempting to lecture such subs on the fact that finding a beautiful mistress does not at all guarantee a great report or session/experience...
...We realize that your naughty little minds put lot of energy into dreaming about your mistress and that her looks play a sizeable role in such fantasies.
This Mistresses in particular is hiding behind such pictures. During the consultation she will be sizing you up deciding whether your interests and personality match hers enough to play together; During this time period you may make the same kind of assessments, and if you find her to be less appealing...you may, without any apprehension, decide against sessioning.
We know this will never occur, but hope this offer will make you feel more comfortable.
Q. What happens the first time I see my mistress? What should I expect?
Before you arrive: When you book your training session, you will be told a time (usually 1 hour before the actual session) to call and confirm your appointment. This is to confirm that both you and the Mistress are running on schedule. Do not be surprised if you fail to call and confirm and lose your appointment. Often another sub is waiting in line, hoping you will fail to confirm so that he may snatch up the session! There is usually a short grace period, but don't take the risk.
The first session is very important for building trust and getting to know one another.
When you arrive you will be shown into one of the dungeon rooms and given a questionnaire to fill out. You can check off things you are very interested in, things you would wish to avoid altogether, and things you are interested in knowing more about and possibly trying someday. You will also have an area to write a quick note about your interests and anything the Mistress should know before proceeding.
Ms. X always spends a decent amount of time (unless you are very late, you naughty boy!) going over this form with you.
She will ask you questions about the form, and then will give you an opportunity to ask your own questions and communicate anything special you might like to add. Feel comfortable that the Mistress is VERY interested in what you have to say. Just be sure that you are very polite and appreciative when you speak to her. If you are less than a gentleman at any point during your visit, do not be surprised if you are instructed to leave.
Once Mistress feels she has enough information, you will get an opportunity to use the restroom and then the session can begin.
Q. What are the Mistress' favorite types of play? What would a traditional session entail?
A. The Mistress enjoys a wide variety of play.
She specializes in both ELECTROPLAY and CBT-within this there is a huge variance. Both novice or low pain threshold subs and experienced or high pain threshold subs can enjoy this play, so feel free to inquire about such play during your consultation.
THIS, HOWEVER, IS BY NO MEANS THE FULL EXTENT OF INTERESTS AND SKILLS.
Ms. X gets very fueled by your reactions and feelings. Finding nothing more fulfilling than meeting a new sub, having an intense consultation,really connecting, and then putting together a session that blows him/her away.
Mistress likes to get in your head.
So be as honest with your domme as possible-you both will be more fulfilled this way. This applies to play with any dominant.
This "intensity" is actually Ms X's favorite type of play. She lies to slowly "unpeel" the layers of her submissives.
As for other interests of Mistress Xstine, see the various Types of Play sections along the top navigation bar.
The more extreme or creative the session idea, the better!